Out of curiosity, I am wondering how frequent do other punters go to 141s / hotels here.

This would not mean going through with it, but includes even just going to visit and look around

I have a life full of work, kids, wife, friends, etc. So I punt as often as I can find 2+ hours where I can sneak off to somewhere i shouldnt be, without being found out. Its not often an opportunity presents itself so end up being about once every month or two. Probably its a good job i am constrained - if I was single I’m pretty sure I’d go every day until the money ran out

Wtf how much money do you guys make to go this often? Even if you have the money what about the time? With work, family, chores, other hobbies, I’m only going every other month. If I’m going through the effort to look around I’m gonna commit all the way, not just for a look